Take 108% responsibility for your life, for what you are, for what you say, for what you do. Absolutely refuse to blame other people for whatever is not working in your life. Always say, “I am responsible.” Because you are.
Success begins when you start using your freedom of choice. At your present stage of personal growth and evolution there are specific lessons that you have to learn about yourself, about life and about other people. How can this understanding help you see your life and what you face in life differently? You are an active participant in your own evolution.